Healthy and unhealthy reasons to work during high school
To help kids understand healthy and unhealthy reasons to work during high school and to help them make the experience a positive one.
OVERVIEW
LEADER PREPARATION
- Obtain index cards and pencils for each person (2 cards per person) in your group.
- Prepare to divide them into small groups of 3 or 4.
- Talk to 2 or 3 kids before the discussion to have them share their work experiences. Think about using them in your meeting.
- Find out costs (i.e., tuition, books, room, and board) of local colleges.
- Write out the "group discussion" questions on slips of paper.
- As kids enter, give each a card and pencil. Ask them to write down the ideal job (career). Also have them describe the worst possible job. Ask them to add reasons for their responses.
- Collect cards from the kids, read several to the group, and have them guess whose is being read.
Consider making a video showing your kids (or others) at work intermixed with shots of things that represent reasons for working (clothes, college, cars, other material things, boredom).
- Divide kids into small groups (give them another index card).
- Ask them to discuss the following questions:
- If you work 20 hours a week, what are some things you will or might miss out on?
- What are some advantages of working part-time?
- Have them first discuss and then personally write answers to this question: On your journey to become a complete person, what qualities do you still need to develop, or what is your life lacking?
- Bring the groups together; collect their cards.
- Hear from the groups on advantages and disadvantages of employment.
- Discuss the importance of taking advantage of the high school years to develop into the person they want to be.
- Read a few of the cards (without names) concerning attributes they want to develop.
- Challenge them to evaluate if employment during high school is worth the sacrifice.
- Show them that what they can save for college may reduce financial aid they receive.
- Briefly discuss discretionary money; follow it up in a subsequent lesson.
- Encourage them to focus on growth in three areas:
- Personal qualities they know they lack.
- Spiritual growth.
- Family growth.
A fun way to reinforce the lesson (and help family communication) is to encourage kids to interview two people (one parent, one teacher), asking them the following questions:
- What one or two things would you do differently if you lived your high school years over again?
- Did you work in high school? If so, how many hours weekly, and how would you describe the experience?
- What one quality (personal characteristic) would you like to have developed in high school that would have been helpful for your future?
IMPLICATIONS
- There is large and increasing number of adolescents entering the workforce.
- Studies indicate that there are comprehensive effects that employment has on adolescents.
- This discussion and information can be used by those dealing with youth in the following ways:
- To better understand the effects of kids’ employment on their lives and development.
- To help monitor and guide kids in the amount of time spent at work (which seems to be a critical factor in a healthy work experience).
- To help parents and their kids communicate on issues that affect both of them.
- To work through materialistic and greed issues with the adolescent.
- To help monitor the balance between work and other aspects of their lives.







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