Borgman, D. (1986). General information about incest. S. Hamilton, MA: Center for Youth Studies.

OVERVIEW

By definition, incest is sexual intercourse between persons related too closely to legally marry. The term is used for any sexual intimacy among family members other than husband and wife. In the fields of nursing and social work, the term is considered a form of sexual abuse—exploiting a child for an adult’s sexual gratification and sense of domination.

There are no reliable figures on the prevalence of incest—because of family secrecy and social taboos)—but most experts agree that its incidence is on the rise. The great increase in reported cases and presence as a counseling issue also reflects greater social awareness and willingness to deal with the matter.

Some research suggests that

• as many as 25% of females have engaged in sexual activity with some family member.
• three quarters of prostitutes claim to have been sexually abused.
• three quarters of runaway children are fleeing incest.

The most common relationships of incest are father/daughter, step-father/step-daughter, uncle/niece, and brother/sister. Incest is also initiated by grandparents, aunts, foster parents and family friends.

Incest, as child abuse, is a crime of power; its intent is domination and gratification—not intimacy. It is almost always a betrayal of great trust. Its consequences for the child are long-term guilt, anxiety, low self-image, and fear of intimacy. Incest contributes to delinquency, addictions, prostitution, sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies and abortions, and serious marital and life-adjustment problems.

Studies have identified the problems caused by incest and have typified the incestuous family and the incestuous adult. These studies refute myths of the seductive child, that incest is often "a made-up story," or that incestuous fathers are bad, "dirty old men." In fact, incestuous families and fathers can often be "good and religious" in other ways.

Research also shows that non-touching sexual abuse (verbal sexual stimulation, voyeurism, exhibitionism, kid porn, etc.) and nonviolent intercourse (where the child is somewhat willing or receives pleasure) are emotionally damaging.

Resources are being developed to deal with the causes and damage caused by incest.