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Pornography Addiction

I recently came across a book that addresses how a wife or girlfriend can address how to deal with the pain and struggles of finding out that their loved one is involved in sexual sin, whether that sin be lust, pornography or any other behavior.  It is a great resource and a book that is a "must read" for any wife or girl friend who is struggling with these issues. The name of the book is called Living with Your Husband's Secret Wars, by Marsha Means. The author is Marsha Means. Her husband Pat wrote the book Men's Secret Wars. It contains some great advice from a woman who has been there. It also contains in the back of the book some great resources, How to Start a Support Group, A Workbook for the Healing Journey, and a resource directory. The biggest thing she says in the book is "We will remain painfully trapped in felings of powerlessness until we choose to detach from out husband's behavior and recognize that his sexual sin is his, not ours." And that is so important for the wife or girlfriend to recognize.

More on the book in the following weeks.

about Marsha

Marsha Means has definitely "been there" and I would recommend her book to anyone who is in relationship with someone struggling with sex addiction.

Marsha has been a great support to TechMission and SafeFamilies and has given us permission to use some of her material. I'm glad to see her book being highlighted.

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