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How To Raise Minority Leaders

Watch DJ Chuang and Rudy Carrasco discuss issues surrounding minority leadership. Listen as they share about the state of Asian-American and Latino leadership and tell stories about their personal journeys in leadership including fears and obstacles they have overcome along the way.

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Course 406 - Theology of Work

Course 406 - Theology of Work (3 credits) This course will look at the theology of work and how work fits into ministry and God’s Kingdom.

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Southern Christian Leadership Conference

The Southern Christian Leadership Conference (SCLC) is an American civil rights organization. SCLC was closely associated with its first president, Dr.

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Should Christian Groups Accept Government Grant Funding

Of course, this is a decision each Christian organization will need to make based on their mission, vision, calling, and leading.  There is no single answer or right answer for all Christian organizations.

 

The decision, in my opinion, should also not be any different under the Obama administration than it was under the Bush administration.

 

There were a number of organizations that got into legal trouble under the Bu
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Taking the terror out of talk

Motley, M.T. (1988, January). "Taking the terror out of talk." Psychology Today.

 

OVERVIEW

Michael T. Motley, a professor and department chair of rhetoric and communication at the University of California, maintains a private practice as a communication consultant. He cites the following facts:

  • About 85% of people feel anxious about speaking in public or suffer "speech anxiety."
  • There are physical symptoms of "speech anxiety": sweaty palms, a dry mouth, an increased heart rate, shaky hands, weak knees, shortness of breath, "butterflies" in the stomach, an increase in blood pressure, and increased muscle tension.
  • While some are encouraged by these symptoms, it scares and deters most people from getting up to make a public speech.
  • In extreme cases, some people suffer irrational fears about public speaking.
  • It is shown that an audience does not generally critique a speech nor attune to a speaker’s nervousness.

HELP FOR THOSE WHO SUFFER EXTREME ANXIETY PRECEDING A SPEECH

  • One method of treatment is systematic desensitization. It aims to lessen physiological arousal, and it involves controlling muscle tension and treatment using visual imagery.
  • Another approach is Rational Emotive Therapy (RET). This strives to reduce irrational thoughts contributing to anxiety.

TIPS FOR PREPARING FOR A SPEECH

  • View the speech as communication rather than performance. Think of it as a normal conversation.
  • Plan how you can best express your major points.
  • Imagine yourself in the audience. Speak to them on their terms, in language they can understand.
  • Think of yourself as speaking to one person at a time so that it feels more natural.
  • Try not to think about your hand movements and facial expressions.
  • Take it slow and easy.
  • Speak the way you would normally talk.
  • Ask for advice and criticism.

 

IMPLICATIONS

  • Public speaking is a very real part of working with youth. Youth workers should feel comfortable in front of young audiences. It is important to accept speaking engagements in order to model public speaking to others.
  • Kids are encouraged to speak in front of class and club audiences. Youth workers can help them prepare for such situations.
  • It is good to practice some techniques for calming down before a speaking engagement.
  • Practice with small groups and friends. Practice with kids. They are the best audience for letting you know where you stand.
  • Realize that when you are asked to speak, it is a form of encouragement and a sign of respect. Use that encouragement when preparing to speak.

Sarah Alderman and Anne Montague cCYS

NEW GENERATION PEER LEADERSHIP PROGRAM

NEW GENERATION PEER LEADERSHIP PROGRAM

 

 

A church ministry designed to empower youth to lead their peers.

 


OVERVIEW

 

 

Youth often find it difficult to lead their peers in a godly manner. This program provides youth with the tools and guidance to lead effectively.

 

PROGRAM GOALS

 

 

To train youth how to lead with biblical principles in various settings by:

 

1.           Developing and providing middle and high school youth with biblical leadership skills

2.           Providing opportunities for youth to exercise their leadership skills, gifts and talents under the guidance and direction of caring adults

 

Youth will develop a confidence and learn basic leadership skills for a job, school or other leadership position.

 

 

The program requires a two-year commitment.

 

PROGRAM METHODS

1.           Application process that includes recommendations from peers at church, their parent and church leadership

 

2.           Ongoing eligibility process that includes regular bible study attendance, and participation in church and youth meetings

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Service opportunities in the leadership of the youth ministry such as teacher assistants

4.           Attendance and input at youth staff meetings

5.           Outreach opportunities consisting of missions (local and abroad)

6.           Ongoing training sessions on biblical character development, how to lead, and personal assessments for youth

7.           Individual mentoring sessions with youth pastor and youth staff

8.           Weekly monitoring of peer leaders by youth pastor and youth staff

PROGRAM OPERATION
Resources include:

1.           Peer leaders report directly to the youth pastor. Additional youth workers also provide support staff to the peer leaders.

2.           Administrative support

3.           Funding for annual retreats

4.           Funding for training materials

5.           Building space for meetings

6.           Ministry opportunities for youth to serve in and exercise their leadership skills

7.           Funding for awards for completion of the ministry

PROGRAM TESTIMONIES
Youth participating in this program have gained:

ü           A greater awareness of their strengths and weaknesses through personal evaluations

ü           Opportunities to exercise their natural gifts and talents

ü           Leadership skills

ü           Character development

ü           Increased confidence in public speaking

ü           Freedom to explore various leadership positions in the church

ü           Disciplines that can be applied in school or at work

ü           Knowledge of how to make an impact at home, school or on a sports team

ü           Visibility in the local church

ü           Access to ministries beyond their local church

ü           Awareness of other cultures and people groups

ü           Self confidence in their "divine design"

 


 


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Some youth have found this program to be too demanding, spiritually, socially and academically. We have discovered that agreement is necessary from the youth and parent/guardian in order for total participation. Also, some youth may feel they are ready to lead but are not emotionally stable. These youth are encouraged to buddy up with someone participating in the program until they are ready to be a leader.

 

Parents have found this program to be a great support for youth, especially for mothers raising sons without fathers. This program provides a myriad of responsible, caring adults to be the village for youth. Moms often use the male leaders to reinforce the principles established in the program and at home. Female youth leaders become extended aunts and big sisters to the youth.

 

Youth have been placed on probation for improper behavior such as:

 

ü           Continuous conflict with a parent or guardian

ü           Failing grades in school

ü           Poor attendance at youth group, bible study or meetings

ü           Poor attitude

ü           Unprepared for their assigned ministry position

ü           Ongoing, unaddressed character issues (lying, stealing, cheating...)

 

TESTIMONIES

 

A parent of a 14 year-old male always knew that her oldest son was destined for leadership. As a single mother of three sons, she is very supportive of his growth and development on all levels. His involvement in the peer leadership program has made him a more mature "old man". That is the nickname given to him due to his mature ways. He was recently acknowledged by his school as a model citizen and is know for standing up for his Christian beliefs, even when being ridiculed. At his eighth grade graduation, he was selected to give the opening prayer because his teachers recognized his commitment to Christ on a daily basis. He and his mother attribute his rapid spiritual growth and development to the peer leadership program and the opportunities to serve. He is currently considering a career in ministry.

 

"New Generation Peer Leaders has given me the confidence in myself. I now know that others can and want to listen to me".

Virginia Ward, cCYS


To help leaders understand the impact of parenting styles and utilize parenting styles as a tool for youth work

To help leaders understand the impact of parenting styles and utilize parenting styles as a tool for youth work.

OVERVIEW

LEADER PREPARATION

  • Prepare video clips as described in the group presentation.
  • Set up equipment to play videos.
  • Prepare discussion questions as listed in group discussion.

GROUP BUILDING

Silent Football. This game is played in a circle using a series of hand motions to "pass the ball." A commissioner plays the role of an authority figure. This person controls the game and disciplines the other players. Almost everyone in the game experiences inconsistent standards and favoritism. This is a really fun way to lead into a discussion of parenting and parenting styles. It gives good insight to the feelings of young people being treated in an extremely inconsistent and unfair manner.

GROUP PRESENTATION

Show video clips on dysfunctional parenting from "Kramer vs. Kramer," "Roseanne," and "Ordinary People." You may use any movie of show that you believe is appropriate for your kids. Focus on scenes where different approaches to parenting are being presented by the two parents and where the same parent has double standards. Also, share a real life situation of yourself or someone you know. (Be careful to protect the identity of others if they have shared with you in confidence.)

GROUP DISCUSSION

  • How did the parenting styles of your parents differ?
  • Who were you closer to as a child? Whom did you ask when you wanted your way?
  • Why is it important for the youth leader to understand parenting styles? How can these tactics aid in serving adults and young people?
  • How can we as leaders help parents understand their own parenting styles?
  • How would you handle a situation where a parent is behaving inappropriately toward their children? Discuss mild and extreme cases.
  • What can you do to help parents understand this issue better?

WRAP-UP

Give some specific examples of good parenting. Set some goals for team unity especially when discipline or nurturing is needed.

  • Strategize as leaders how to bombard kids with affirmation.
  • Affirm positive parenting in your contact with parents.
  • Plan a time to address this issue with young people.

IMPLICATIONS

  1. From this discussion, leaders will see the opportunity to utilize parenting techniques and adapt them in a way relevant to youth work.
  2. Understanding family functions helps leaders to see and counsel kids in a more informed, effective manner.
  3. Families are the central influence on a young person’s character until their adolescent years. Understanding the expectations, discipline, and nurturing of a young person explains much about an adolescent’s behavior.
  4. Often, a youth leader or educator is asked advice on discipline or other parenting tactics. Usually, these people are untrained and/or unable to knowledgeably respond. Studies and discussions such as these are helpful in being better prepared to give advice.

cCYS

Choosing a Youth Pastor

Borgman, Dean. (2006) “Choosing a Youth Pastor,”  Center for Youth Studies.
 


OVERVIEW

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Calling to Youth Ministry

 Borgman, Dean. (2006) “Calling to Youth Ministry: Biblical & Practical Considerations,” S. Hamilton, MA Center for Youth Studies.

 
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LEADERSHIP OVERVIEW

LEADERSHIP OVERVIEW

(Download this overview as a PDF)


Most simply, a leader is someone who has followers or is making a significant impact upon a given group of people. Many see themselves as leaders because they have studied or been trained in leadership, but they may never really have had any followers or have no significant influence in motivating a given group of friends

Children desire leadership from their parents. Teenagers seek to share in leadership—to become leaders themselves—while expecting the right kind of leadership from coaches, teachers and youth workers. It is impossible to observe any subculture of youth without noticing some "pacesetters" or initiators who get things going, set the pace, or initiate new activities. Many peer groups operate on the basis of shared leadership, but even with such a style, leadership remains important.

The world doesn’t seem to work without leaders. There are sometimes complaints about a leadership vacuum—the absence of positive role models and effective leadership. There are overlaps and subtle differences among the terms leaders, heroes, role models, and celebrities which can provide interesting discussions with young people.

Historically, crisis seems to bring out leaders. Mandela was there when he was needed. Gandhi and Martin Luther King, Jr. were timely leaders. The U.S. needed Abraham Lincoln in a time of great domestic crisis. Winston Churchill seemed to be a better leader in the crisis of war than in the aftermath of peace.

Much can be gained from the study of ancient leaders: Moses, Saul and David, Jesus, Buddha, Mohammed, Alexander the Great, and the lesser known Alfred the Great. In the lives of many great leaders, we see striking flaws as well as admirable characteristics.

What people admire in leaders is conditioned by the culture and times. Here is how an ancient Hebrew writer described a greatly admired leader.

Strap your sword upon your thigh, O mighty warrior,

in your pride and in your majesty.

Ride out and conquer in the cause of truth

and for the sake of justice.

Your right hand will show you marvelous things;

your arrows are very sharp, O mighty warrior.

The peoples are falling at your feet,

and the king’s enemies are losing heart. (Psalm 45:3-6, BCP)

Current ideals lean more toward servant leadership. Though we talk about the leader as servant, most CEOs, coaches, presidents or prime ministers still act from the power of a hierarchical structure.

DEFINITION OF LEADERSHIP

What do we mean by a leader; it hasn’t yet been defined. Most simply, a leader is one who has followers. Many see themselves as leaders because they have studied or been trained in leadership, but they may never really have had any followers. Many positions in adult society automatically provide followers. A teacher or coach who can maintain discipline and knows what he or she wants to accomplish, has instant followers—as do managers in business, political leaders, and even pastors of a church. But in most cases, youth workers have to earn the right to lead through relationships and activities. Youth leaders have voluntary followers!

Paul Hersey and Kenneth H. Blanchard (1988, p. 86) give us a summary of leadership definitions:

According to George R. Terry (1960, p. 493), ‘Leadership is the activity of influencing people to strive willingly for group objectives.’ Robert Tannenbaum, I.R. Weschler & Fred Massarik (1959) define leadership as ‘interpersonal influence exercised in a situation and directed, through the communication process, toward the attainment of specialized goals.’ Harold Koontz and Cyril O’Donnell (1959, p. 435) state that ‘leadership is influencing people to follow in the achievement of a common goal.’

A review of other writers reveals that most management writers agree THAT leadership is the process of influencing the activities of an individual or a group in efforts toward goal achievement in a given situation. From this definition of leadership, it follows that the leadership process is a function of a leader, the follower, and other situational variables.

We are talking then about a dynamic process in some particular situation and over an extended period of time in which someone with particular skills and using a particular style interacts with those, who with him or her, want to accomplish something—arrive at a certain goal or goals.

Sometimes a distinction is made between leaders and managers. Although the terms are most often used as synonyms, emphasis on the leader connotes a visionary inspiring others toward a given purpose while the manager gets things done (accomplishes goals) by planning, control, and evaluation. Do you consider yourself more of a leader or a manager, and how can you compensate for what you lack?

Eric Hoffer (True Believer) distinguishes original leaders of nations and movements as "men of words" (Lenin) from the more managerial "men of action," (Stalin) who followed by organizing and making the vision work. Many youth organizations provide examples of this pattern of development.

FURTHER REVIEW OF THE LITERATURE ON LEADERSHIP

Anthony D’Souza is a Third World writer who book Leadership (Nairobi, Kenya: Pauline Publications Africa, 1989, 1997) is a trilogy: "Being a Leader," "Leading Others," "Leading Effectively." It brings together much that has been studied about leadership and management. He sees leadership styles along a continuum from Leader-Centered to Group-Centered. The authority of a leader is relinquished, and group freedom gained as leaders move from telling to persuading to consulting to participating and finally to delegating. Where do you see your style of leadership on such a continuum?

Also helpful is D’Sousa’s diagram of four important influences on leadership behavior: the personality of the leader, the personality of group members, the nature of the task, and the nature of the environment. This helps in contrasting a professional football team to pick-up basketball or volleyball competition, and high powered business situation to a youth group.

Eugene Seals and Matthew Parker have edited Called To Lead: Wisdom for the Next Generation of African American Leaders (Farmington Hills, MI: Quality Publishing Systems, 1995). In this book John Perkins, who was taken out of elementary school after three years to work in the cotton fields and was later beaten by white police for being a leader of a protest, and has emerged as a national leader for reconciliation and urban development gives three characteristics of leadership: "A leader must learn how to stand alone; a leader must know how to plan and manage; a leader must know how to live with pain." (pp. 36-37) Youth work must develop better multi-cultural sensitivity.

Jane Adams (Women on Top, New York: Hawthorne Books, 1979) deals with distinctions between men and women and how a women’s drive for success in management may threaten her with male characteristics she would rather avoid. Women under male leadership and male leaders can profit greatly from Janet L. Kobobel’s "But Can She Type?" Overcoming Stereotypes in the Workplace (Downer’s Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press, 1986) Youth work has often been male-dominated and needs to function comfortably under the leadership of women.

Dysfunctional leadership and situations are describes in Anne Wilson Schaef and Diane Fassel’s The Addictive Organization: Why We Overwork, Cover Up, Pick Up the Pieces, Please the Boss and Perpetuate Sick Organizations (HarperSanFrancisco, 1988). Using research on addiction these authors conclude that society itself and its organizations can function as an addict. What is often accepted as "normal" or "acceptable" organizational or leadership behavior, may actually be "addictive behavior masquerading as corporate structure and function" (p. 4). There are too many striking examples of dysfunctional youth organizations or youth work struggling within larger dysfunctional systems.

 

QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION AND DISCUSSION

  1. Do youth workers need to be concerned with leadership theory and practice?
  2. Does a lack of such understanding contribute to burn-out and unprofessional style of work?
  3. What do you find most helpful in this article? Why so?
  4. About what in this article do you disagree or what would you like to discuss further?

 

IMPLICATIONS

  1. A primary function of leadership is moving people from a recognition of the way things are to the way things might be...a new vision.
  2. Healthy leaders are initiators, catalysts, enablers. Servant leaders humble themselves so that others may be lifted up.
  3. Youth work needs not only leaders; it needs leaders of leaders.

Dean Borgman cCYS

Volunteer Opportunities: Leadership

Title Organization Name City, State/Country
Short Term Missions Trinity Christian Community
New Orleans, LA
United States
After School Tutor Dorchester H.E.R.C.
Mattapan, MA
United States
Preschool aide and/or tutor Christian Appalachian Project
KY
United States
ministry assistants CHRISTIAN GLOBAL NETWORK (CGN)
BUEA
Cameroon
Music Ministry / Team Dynamic Life Chapel
Ghana
Group mission visitation Earthen Vessels Outreach
Pittsburgh, PA
United States
Volunteer Abroad Missions China Yantai Teaching English Cultural Immersion www.abroaderview.org A Broader View Volunteers Corp
Yantai
China
Worship Minister Oasis Empowerment Center
Tamuning
Guam
Nanny MissionNannys.org
Santa Barbara, CA
United States
Live-in House Manager/Intern Male-Female Outreach Gospel Mission
Brookings, OR
United States
Title Organization Name
volunteer Tape Ministries Northwest
Reading Tutor for Elementary School Children --Belle Haven Elementary Reading Partners
Teachers and fund raisers. GOOLONG SISONG EDUCATIONAL SOCIETY
Tutor/GED Coordinator F.A.I.T.H. Ministries, Inc.
Director of Education Promised Land International, Inc.
Directors of Family Life Promised Land International, Inc.
Director of Transportation Promised Land International, Inc.
Mentoring Program Director KEE
Fundraiser Christian Resource Network Inc.
Creative Lead Club Alexa
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