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To alleviate the boredom so often experienced by teenagers

 

To alleviate the boredom so often experienced by teenagers.

OVERVIEW

LEADER PREPARATION

  • Using a video cassette recorder, record several brief clips from popular teenage programs that show teens involved in high adventure or costly activities. Put these together to show with whom teenagers often compare their lives. As an alternative, use magazine articles and pictures or refer to a current popular movie.
  • A week before presenting this topic to your group, ask several young people to keep track of how often they are bored during the week. Select kids who you think will have varying degrees of boredom during the week (be careful not to put down a sensitive young person—use generally confident kids). Use this in the group buildup exercise below.
  • Get a copy of the research abstract on boredom and look over the results before the group meets.

GROUP BUILDING

Ask the group to define boredom and come to some kind of consensus. Have the young people who tracked their boredom throughout the week stand or sit in front of the group, and encourage the group to guess how many times each one was bored during the week. Use this to lead into a short discussion of what really bores your group. Listen carefully because they may say things that can help you in future planning of youth group events.

 

 

 

GROUP PRESENTATION

  • Show video clips or magazine articles to your group and ask them if these represent the typical teenager in your town. Ask them how the images shown are similar and different. Let them generate the idea that they are unfairly comparing their lives to those who are rich, famous, or lucky.
  • Ask your kids to help you make a list of options of things to do when you are bored. Tell them you want to include it in the group’s next newsletter.
  • Discover from the young people what other ways you can help them overcome "problem boredom." Keep in mind the community and the family in your discussion.

WRAP-UP

Boredom always causes one to view oneself in terms of either pity or creativity. A positive and realistic way to lessen the effect of boredom is to focus on the needs of other people in whose lives your young people can make a difference. Does your group reach out to the community? To third world missions? What gifts do your teenagers have? How can they be developed and used for the good of others?

 

 

 

EVALUATION

After finding a worthy project which teenagers could do on their own or with the group, ask them if their boredom has decreased. Ask the young people singled out at the beginning to comment on this.

Bob Atchinson cCYS

To be able to discuss cheating openly and with concern for how it affects our daily and future lives.


To be able to discuss cheating openly and with concern for how it affects our daily and future lives.

OVERVIEW

LEADER PREPARATION

  • Before you begin the discussion, familiarize yourself with articles and studies on cheating and ethics.
  • Prepare different activities that allow for cheating to occur, e.g., quiz or games.
  • Bring together all necessary supplies and props.

GROUP BUILDING

Open with a game of new fangled basketball. After picking the teams, ask one person on each team to make up a new rule for the game. Enforce both new rules for both teams. After a few minutes of play, ask for two more rules from two different people and resume play. Enjoy the chaos as each person begins to make up rules that benefit their team or themselves. Do not moralize the game.

GROUP PRESENTATION

Hand out to participants a very difficult quiz. Clearly state in the instructions that teens are to work alone. Before the meeting, write the correct answers on one—in pencil—and then lightly erase the answers. Shuffle this quiz in the stack of the others that you are passing out for the students to complete. Excuse yourself from the room for a minute or stand at a distance. Return just as students are finishing the quiz. Ask the kids for the answers. At least one student—and maybe more—will do incredibly well. Then explain what you have done.

To put the newly discovered cheaters at ease, find out just how much the other youth cheat. Have everyone stand. Tell people who have not cheated at all in the last 12 months to sit. Then ask for those who have not cheated in the last 6 months to sit. In the last 2 months, the last four weeks, two weeks, two minutes. As you do this keep an eye out for the 50/50 point, where half are standing and half are sitting down (a good place to end the game).

GROUP DISCUSSION

Guide the discussion in the general direction of the following easy outline. Memorize it so you do not need a ‘cheat sheet.’

  • What is cheating?
  • How common is it around you?
  • What is wrong with cheating?
  • What should happen to cheaters?
  • What is your standard going to be?

With the closing question, provide paper and pencils for teens to write out an honor statement to which they commit themselves. For example, a teenager could write, "Today, I make this promise to myself, and my youth group that I will not cheat in school this year, no matter what happens." Specific forms of cheating may be mentioned if the teen is especially tempted in one particular area. Cheating at home (taking credit for work that one did not do, blaming others for work that one did) and work (time clock) may also be used in the statement. Do not let cop-out with phrases such as "I will try," "I will work at it," or "If possible, I will..." A commitment to future behavior should be clear and concise. It should not contain an escape clause such as, "Unless it is a real emergency."

WRAP-UP

Discussion leader: write down your commitment statement as well. Let the young people know that this is an effective tool for changing future behavior. Past mistakes can be forgiven. Let young people know that cheating habits can be hard to break and that you and the group are willing to stand by them and help them to change.

Bob Atchinson cCYS

   


Cheating in the classroom

Atchinson, B. (1992). Cheating in the classroom. S. Hamilton, MA: Center for Youth Studies.

OVERVIEW

If a student claims to cheat, should that student be believed? Most high school and college students cheat. Several recent studies indicate that three quarters of all high school students and two thirds of college students cheat. Donald McCabe, an associate professor of business ethics at Rutgers, expressed shock at the results of a survey (of more than 6,000 students at 31 of America’s most respected colleges) revealing that most students cheat. "The thing that scares me is that these kids are the academic elite—the future leaders of America—and their attitude is: ‘Society owes me. Why should I have to work?’ "

Cheating increases with age throughout adolescence according to a 1987 Gallup Youth Survey. Half of junior high students (ages 13-15) have cheated on an exam. The figure climbs to nearly three quarters for high school students (ages 16-17). There is little difference among above average and below average students. After adolescence, studies show a decline in cheating behavior (50% for ages 18-24, 34% for ages 25-44 and 29% for ages 45-64).

Cheating also seems to be global. Recently, in India, cheating has become somewhat common. It is reported that newspapers regularly post notices from colleges and universities indicating which students’ exams have been disqualified because of cheating. (AP news release. [1989, December 8]. New Delhi, India.) In 1989 and 1990, thousands of test scores were nullified because of widespread cheating. The Educational Testing Service (ETS) had to cancel 6,600 Graduate Record Examination (GRE) test scores in what they believed to be the largest scale of cheating ever.

Consider 1987, called "The Year of Lying Dangerously" by Washington Post writer Walt Harrington. He lists Gary Hart, Joe Biden, Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker, Oliver North and the Iran-Contra scandal, the NASA Challenger investigation, the Wall Street insiders...and more. Isn’t it somewhat logical that if today’s leaders lie and cheat, then tomorrow’s leaders will too? In his Washington Post article (1988, January 4), Harrington said, "People lie, steal and more today not so much because they don’t know right from wrong, but because in big, bureaucratized, corporatized, impersonalized America, it’s harder and harder to do the right thing and easier and easier to do the wrong thing."

It is not just the "big guys" that influence youth to cheat. Parents are often inconsistent with their children. When parents instruct their child to lie ("Tell him I am not home") they clearly signal that lying is OK. If parents cheat their employers out of vacation days or sick days then why shouldn’t a student cheat on their work as well? Parental influence on personal values is becoming a thing of the past. Only one half of today’s young adults (18-24 year olds) feel that they received strong, positive moral values from their parents. Compare that to 61 percent of the middle-aged population (ages 2-60) and 78 percent of the retirement generation (ages 65+). It is also interesting that students who think cheating is a major problem in their schools say that the teachers are to blame, a claim flatly denied by teachers. (1990, September/October. Journal of Education Research).

Do religious convictions make any difference in cheating behavior? According to a Gallup Poll it does. Of those who attend church services regularly, 55 percent cheat. While this certainly is not a moral majority, of those who do not attend services regularly, 66 percent cheat. Another study (Patterson. [1991]. The day America told the truth.) also shows that people who describe themselves as "religious" showed more of a commitment to moral values than "non-religious" people.

Among ninth through twelfth graders in public or private schools, cheating is most prevalent with white males in private schools. The reasons for their cheating are usually "to get ahead." On the other hand, if Asians or women cheat, it is more likely to be for the reason of helping someone else ([1990, Winter]. Journal of Research and Development in Education).

QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION AND DISCUSSION

  1. Whose responsibility is it to curb the trend of cheating among today’s students?
  2. What can be done to support the task of moralizing youth? What can you do?
  3. Why do schools that impose honor codes with high ethical standards have fewer cheaters? Discuss the following statements:
    • The quality of students who attend these schools is better than other schools.
    • The schools have taken the time and energy to express behavioral expectations to the students.
    • The threat of possible punishment for being caught is greater than the possible rewards of cheating.
    • Students’ behavior tends to rise to adult expectations: If adults trust them, they are more likely to become trustworthy.

IMPLICATIONS

  1. Cheating relates to many factors, including the pressure to succeed, self-esteem, church attendance, adult expectations, and friendship pressures.
  2. To curb cheating, youth workers need to find ways to level off the sensed pressure, build value into kids, encourage religious affiliations, help adults express expectations appropriately, and expose negative friendships.
  3. Other adults can help. Teachers can become more capable of catching students, make tougher punishments when students are caught, and begin teaching moral values in the classroom. Parents can begin to catch their own inconsistent standards of behavior and be more honest with their kids. Churches and family organizations can encourage regular attendance and firmly teach values to teenagers.
  4. Think about and list the real consequences of cheating. How many are concrete, immediate, and personal? The loss of a grade, a suspension, and extra homework are understood by teenagers. But what about the abstract, long-range, and corporate consequences of cheating? How can we help teenagers understand these consequences and their gravity? Loss of trust among friends and family members, the loss of a career, or even the loss of life can result from lying and cheating.
Bob Atchinson cCYS


Cheating in sports

Atchinson, B. (1992). Cheating in sports. S. Hamilton, MA: Center for Youth Studies.

OVERVIEW

Cheating is now expected in sports. Athletes try to win by using steroids and by cheating on drug tests. Rules are no longer guidelines for the game but rather barriers to be overcome. Cheating has become a game within the games.

Ben Johnson of Canada, who won a gold medal at Seoul Olympics and then lost it after testing positive to steroid use, might be the most well known cheater but he is not the only one. A year and half later at the Commonwealth Games in Australia, three weightlifters were disqualified and barred from competition after testing positive to steroid use. In all, they won and then gave up a total of seven medals.

Officials are not optimistic about the future of drug cheating in sports. Realistically, they know that testing must become a regular part of every athlete’s permanent record. This type of cheating is not only hazardous to the health of the athletes but runs against every notion of fair competition. It hurts fans, destroys self and national pride, and affects children and teenagers who admire winning athletes.

So why do they cheat? The rewards of winning by cheating are financial gain and fame. These seem to be more important to some athletes than the consequences of getting caught: financial fines and an infamous reputation. Australian Senator John Black, who investigated the Commonwealth athletes, said, "they have learned nothing from Seoul." He continues, "Drug-taking is so sophisticated these days that unless they are dumb or have been given the wrong advice by coaches, athletes should know their clearance time—the time it takes for an illegal substance not to be traced. Ben Johnson tested negative 17 times before he got caught, yet said he used steroids the whole time."

There are other ways to cheat in sports. During a marathon, it is faster and a whole lot easier to win if one takes the subway instead of running the entire course. There are always unsportsmanlike moves that debilitate, temporarily or permanently, an opposing player. Gambling on or against your own team has its well-known hero in Pete Rose. Fixing games or point spreads for cash instead of glory has brought down many an athlete. Cheating abounds in sports and sports heroes.

Fortunately, most of the cases we hear about end with some kind of attempted justice. Athletes lose their medal; managers are banned from the Hall of Fame. The loss of points and yards or the gain of time penalty boxes all offer, at least, symbolic credence to values of fair play.

QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION AND DISCUSSION

  1. What are some of ways cheating enters into elementary age sports?
  2. Does teaching kids early how to ‘push the rules’ eventually lead to the breaking of rules and cheating?
  3. How do little avoidances or ‘cheatings’ in sport reflect on our daily lives?
  4. From where does the pressure come to win at all costs?

IMPLICATIONS

  1. Cheating has become a game in and of itself. Punishments are seen as risks of being caught. The goal of many athletes is still to win or to get rich with as little real effort as possible.
  2. Fair play is a concept that makes competition worthwhile. It is a concept we easily forget to teach to high school athletes.
  3. Teenagers need guidance in visualizing the long- and short-term results of cheating. With a teenager, list the "pros" and "cons" of using drugs to improve performance. Rate each of the benefits and consequences on a scale of 1 to 10. Add the points in each column to show the teenager his or her own values concerning cheating in sports.
Bob Atchinson cCYS
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